He called himself single! Tonight, my bf and I went out for the first time with a group of his friends. We were both invited to an event in July (which I had to decline for professional purposes). However, I encouraged him to attend because it will be a HUGE group of females, and maybe him and another male. I thought he could really enjoy his time (if he stays safe). Anyway, so he is flirting with this one girl we are bowling with and she mentions this trip. He calls himself single and says "what single guy would turn down this opportunity?". I agree, he totally should go. I would go except there will be minors there that I cannot be around with alcohol.
However, he could have an amazing time. My concern. He called himself single! He has not 1, but 2 girlfriends. I confronted him on it, and he said, "I guess in my mind, I always have that single mind mentality. I didn't meant to hurt your feelings or be offensive". I asked him what we were. He said I was his GF and so was another. I reminded him that I wanted him to have pleasure and that he need not run around shouting about me, but that maybe he avoid the context all together. He agreed, but his comment still resonates with me.
I am not sure how to handle this. I don't want to get in the way of our open relationship, but claiming single is dishonest. He said he didn't know how else to handle it and was being honest and didn't mean to hurt me (I am inclined to believe this, as I was there for the whole event.) I don't know how to discuss this with him.
However, he could have an amazing time. My concern. He called himself single! He has not 1, but 2 girlfriends. I confronted him on it, and he said, "I guess in my mind, I always have that single mind mentality. I didn't meant to hurt your feelings or be offensive". I asked him what we were. He said I was his GF and so was another. I reminded him that I wanted him to have pleasure and that he need not run around shouting about me, but that maybe he avoid the context all together. He agreed, but his comment still resonates with me.
I am not sure how to handle this. I don't want to get in the way of our open relationship, but claiming single is dishonest. He said he didn't know how else to handle it and was being honest and didn't mean to hurt me (I am inclined to believe this, as I was there for the whole event.) I don't know how to discuss this with him.
