Super new and not sure what to do!

[Happygirl]

I'm 24 and my boyfriend and I have decided to become non monogamous. I am new to it but it was my decision as I'm sexually inexperienced and want to explore myself a bit more.

Anyway I'm really friendly and hope to have some good chat on here

Am about to post a wee question in a section regarding my current situation!

 

[notarobot]

Hey Happygirl, welcome to Polyamory.com! I hope you'll find people here supporting and lovely, I certainly have.

If you're new to poly, I'd encourage you to do some research on poly and the different ways of managing it, there's so many people who have been in your exact situation, who have learned from those experiments, and who have codified that knowledge online. MoreThanTwo is an excellent resource for people new to poly and who have been poly for years!

The most important thing when transitioning from a monogamous to a poly relationship (as it is in any relationship state) is communication. Talk with your bf about why you want what you want, how you feel, how he feels, what he wants, etc. Make sure if you are navigating stormy waters, which you are hopefully not, that you have all the best information available for you to do so!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Happygirl,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I'd be happy to help you out in any way I can, and many other members here will feel the same. Go ahead and post any questions you may have, and we'll try to answer.

Good to have you with us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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