This is me..

[Khas]

I'm khas, husband of justlost, and newly out as poly.

I encouraged her to post, and as part of that, agreed to post my part of the story. I've actually been reading here for some time, have seen that this board is full of great, accepting, and helpful people.

We're in the very early phases of figuring this out, and this community seems very supportive of helping with that. Ah well, off to the stories board.

 

[Clyde]

Hi khas. I said hi to justlost earlier and am glad to see this post.

I'm similar to you but not yet out (and perhaps not soon)--we're still declared mono. My problem is waiting up (now that she knows I don't like to watch) for my wife to telegraph her feelings when it's date night for her and the boyfriend. Different time zone. Always a downer when she doesn't say good night. Funny how quickly wives figure stuff out.

My girlfriends and I are too old to have kids and it's somewhat like replaying a Bergman movie when we get together. In fact we're kind of partial to Bergman & ice cream.

Looking forward to following how it goes for you.