Travel question

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joedirte

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Next week, my wife Bella and I might take a trip with her boyfriend Cooper. We are not swingers, so we won't be sharing a room. It's a quick 2-3 day trip, but we might have other friends coming with us. We are poly but we haven't told anyone. So in our large group of friends, just the three of us know.

My question is about sharing time during the day or night. The three of us are good with hanging out, eating, partying, etc., but when it comes to ending the night, do we take turns, one night on, one off? It sounds simple. But also we have a problem because our other friends are used to sharing a room with Cooper each time we take this trip, so and they might question the change of routine.

As far as telling people, we just started with polyamory and have bigger issues than trying to have others accept us.
 
I don't understand what your question is. Either you tell these other people that this is your wife's boyfriend and do whatever is "normal" to YOU, or you don't tell them, and you suck it up and behave in such a way so as they don't find out what you don't want them to find out.
 
You're either going to have to forego the night-switching or change the routine. Whether it's Cooper getting a room for himself or him splitting a room with you, something's going to have to change.

There's also the approach of simply letting the others know that the three of you are poly.
 
Not sure there is a norm. You do what works for you!

Ever consider adjoining rooms?
 
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