Trying my best to keep my family together.

[Mart0308]

Hi new poly friends

I'm Josée

I have so much to write that I'm going to do bullet points.

-I'm married 6 years dated 4 years prior to that.
-we have 2 boys (4 and 8)
-longest time without sex was 1 year after the birth of our youngest
-our average for sex is about every 6-8 months
-I've always been the one to initiate
-early this year we consulted with a sex therapist
-she said my husband was an asexual
-my husband and sex therapist had suggested I seek sex with other man.
-I had refused over and over again but finally agreed so start dating.
-I realized that I missed more then just the sex. I was also in need of affection and attention.
-3 months ago I met and fell in love with a great really loving man.
-we are now a poly family and he now lives with us
-he seems to be a great fit for my family.
-my husband and boyfriend are monogamist and I'm with just them. We are in a V
-I no longer seek any kind of sex, attention and affection from my husband and he's ok with it
-my boyfriend is having jealousy issues but he's working on them

TO BE CONTINUED...

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Josée,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you're doing pretty well with poly so far, and that it has helped you. Hopefully your boyfriend will be able to work through his issues.

Glad you could join us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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