This conversation literally just happened Thursday night. She's known nothing up to this point. I was spiraling but not crazy spiraling luckily because I was seeing my therapist. I'm actually doing quite well until this as I'm still trying to work out my feelings about Sweetie. I also don't know if my feelings are exclusive to just Sweetie or if I could feel this way about anyone else which I think I could if I had a strong connection with that person but I also feel like I'm not being faithful to my Baby by having these feelings.
We will be seeing a couples therapist in the coming weeks to start to work through this but I believe I'll have to make a decision between staying with Baby or moving on as I don't think Baby will be up for this and I'm still not sure if I'm for it either.
We have been talking a lot more which is awesome and very much needed as we both tend to hold stuff in and not tell each other what we want and need.
We will be seeing a couples therapist in the coming weeks to start to work through this but I believe I'll have to make a decision between staying with Baby or moving on as I don't think Baby will be up for this and I'm still not sure if I'm for it either.
We have been talking a lot more which is awesome and very much needed as we both tend to hold stuff in and not tell each other what we want and need.