Sour, good job! I know it can be kind of hard to do that. However just about everyone I've come out to like that has had a positive response, or at least a "Meh. What ever works for you". Only one person has said something negative about it, but I don't really trust his opinions anyways.
What did you do today that made you smile?
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SourGirl
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Thanks guys 
Oh, it is VERY hard for me. I am as closeted as closeted gets. However I am a bit sick of being so restrictive on myself. I have been coaching myself to trust some people in my life, and trust that I pick good people.
So far, so good. No villagers chasing me with pitchforks yet.
Oh, it is VERY hard for me. I am as closeted as closeted gets.
However I am a bit sick of being so restrictive on myself. I have been coaching myself to trust some people in my life, and trust that I pick good people.So far, so good. No villagers chasing me with pitchforks yet.
marksbabygirl
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Not poly related... but I got to SCRIMMAGE!!! YAY DERBY!!
Derbylicious
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We have the same scrimmage day! There's an open scrimmage coming up near here. If you're interested message me on FB and I'll give you the details!
I was having anxiety about how hubs and I are relating (trying to reconnect after his long absence) which has been stilted. I started to get into my mental spiral of crap, but I sat and looked at what I was feeling, and let myself feel it, and though it was uncomfortable towards the end I started to come back out of it and in the end wound up figuring some things out that might actually help us get back on track.
Of course it was 4 in the morning when this all happened.
Caffeine!!!!!
Of course it was 4 in the morning when this all happened.
Caffeine!!!!!
SourGirl
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TL4everu2
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hehe....Wouldn't YOU like to know?!? LOL
Coulda been my wife...coulda been this woman I'm seeing....Not sure I remember now....It's been a couple days now. Today....No smiles yet.
Tomorrow...I get to watch the fights with my wife, and this new couple we are seeing.
nycindie
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Oh, is there something new to tell us?
SourGirl
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hehe....Wouldn't YOU like to know?!? LOL
Why yes smartass, I would. lol
I be nosey like that.
We`ll be watching too !
TL4everu2
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Maybe... See my blog I guess I'll put it on there.
Who you rooting for? I want Jon Jones to take it so bad. He's AWESOME, and I think he has great technique, whereas Rampage, is simply a brawler IMO.
Today I watched my wife AND our daughter graduate from Massage Therapy school.
So Proud!
BrigidsDaughter
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Played Rock Band 3 with my siblings at my son's birthday party while our parents listened to my brother butcher some of our favorite songs.
opalescent
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Had a lovely afternoon encounter yesterday. Still smiling about it!
nycindie
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Told a vanilla-mono-friend about my 'open ways' and was greeted with this response :
' Whatever, it's your life, live it as you see fit. Talking with you, i have a sense that you love your husband deeply. It also seems you have a much stronger relationship than you had with your ex. It doesn't fit what society considers normal, but what the hell, if it works then good for you guys. Just sayin', that's how i see it. '
*pinches self* Nope, didn`t die.
That's great that you can now relax and be yourself with someone you consider a friend.
Curious: did you worry that because your friend is monogamous and non-kinky, that he wouldn't be open-minded? (you do sound surprised, LOL)
TL4everu2
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Had a good time watching the fights last night.........and going to the bar afterward......it led up to some sexy "fun" for which I somewhat regret today......but ehhh........i am alive today.......very tired.......and I never once crossed any boundaries or broke any trust.
SourGirl
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Well he is kinky, ( Use to be, though not anymore ? Sorry, it`s complicated.) and a ex-bf. Though quite married, and monogamous. I took a chance telling someone that was a fairly close-minded individual many years ago. Who knows what goes through ex`s heads,...know what I mean ?
I have played it safe in the past and only revealed myself to certain friends who also had something closeted.
This is the first time telling someone that there was no 'even' exchange of secrets.
I`ve not yet had 'facebook drama' and I really hope never to experience that. I think I worried more about being 'outed' when I was trying to be poly.
At this point, if someone has a problem with me being open, they would get told a very, very, small amount of information, and the rest would not be any of their business. I won`t throw what I do, out there for all the world to see, but I won`t let anyone back me in a corner and shame me either.
So,..It`s good.
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TruckerPete
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Mr. A took me up for a flight today. Showed me some neat moves. It was a beautiful day for it!
Had a loverly family dinner with Indigo's parents, brother, and grandmother. His twin is usually an ass, but was totally bearable toniight and I actually enjoyed talking to him at times.
Had a loverly family dinner with Indigo's parents, brother, and grandmother. His twin is usually an ass, but was totally bearable toniight and I actually enjoyed talking to him at times.
BrigidsDaughter
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I made my boy smile; playing Transformer's Risk with Runic Wolf and Yoda.