beautychateau
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I have never been in a relationship with someone who did not have mental ilnesses of some kind or another.
Growing up, i thought the "normal people" were just good at faking it. I usually ask about it fairly early on. Mental illnesses will not scare me away, i just like knowing what to expect. That said, nobody has ever been completely upfront with me, which doesnt bother me. I just learn their individual quarks and learn how i can help.
Personally, i would want to know as early as possible, but it wouldnt scare me away either way.
I wish others had this approach , it would help with decreasing the stigma