Where Do We Go From Here?
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FallenAngelina
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IndieSolo
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Hi Drakkaras, I remember you and your situation. Wasn't your girlfriend's husband in a specific type of therapy to deal with trauma and using that as an excuse for why he didn't want you to be sexual with his wife? I recall that his rationale didn't make much sense, but that you were being very compassionate nd moving slowly in order to gain his trust.
What kind of feedback are you looking for? I am not clear on if there is a specific question for us or not.
PS -
I also request that you change all these initials you're using to aliases. While I was reading your posts, I kept going back and forth wondering, "who is PP, who is SP?" It makes it too hard to read. You have 12-hour window to edit posts. Thanks!
What kind of feedback are you looking for? I am not clear on if there is a specific question for us or not.
PS -
I also request that you change all these initials you're using to aliases. While I was reading your posts, I kept going back and forth wondering, "who is PP, who is SP?" It makes it too hard to read. You have 12-hour window to edit posts. Thanks!
Name changes would help a lot. I had a hard time going through all that.
I am so sorry you deal in this.
I could be wrong. But after reading all that, I see push-pull behavior. And moments of clarity. And jekyll-hyde. And circular conversation. Maybe some entitlement with her wanting you to "instantly" bounce back. Like she wants some supply and you are a big meanie for not giving it to her.
Does PP have some kind of personality disorder? You might want to look at the 100 list and see if anything resonates. Then share all that with your counselor and help you decide what to do. If you want to leave or if you want to stay and learn how to be with a PD person (if she has a PD that explains all this behavior.)
For sure any abusive behavior has to stop. You are walking on eggshells over there.
Galagirl
I am so sorry you deal in this.
I could be wrong. But after reading all that, I see push-pull behavior. And moments of clarity. And jekyll-hyde. And circular conversation. Maybe some entitlement with her wanting you to "instantly" bounce back. Like she wants some supply and you are a big meanie for not giving it to her.
Does PP have some kind of personality disorder? You might want to look at the 100 list and see if anything resonates. Then share all that with your counselor and help you decide what to do. If you want to leave or if you want to stay and learn how to be with a PD person (if she has a PD that explains all this behavior.)
For sure any abusive behavior has to stop. You are walking on eggshells over there.
Galagirl
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