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I need to step away for awhile.
I do believe women abort fetuses not only because of the difficulties of raising a child, but because of ableism. There has been much discuss of this in disability studies and there was an article in the New York Times about a woman who aborted a child because of an extra finger. Culture does not, yet, have the perception of disabled people as full human beings. This is reflected in abortion.
You probably don't realize it but your comment about Hawking reflects this opinion You said 'he is who he is because he was not born disabled." Bullshit. A person with the right resources and care CAN be born as disabled as Hawking and stll be an asset to society. I, in fact, am writing a book on someone who couldn't feed himself and needed total care and was one of the most influence people in poetry.
No, I do not know what it is like to have a disabled child. Nor am I saying that anyone should take on that task (or the task of any child). I am saying that once perception of disabled people changes, and they are not viewed as, for example Searching says of their own child drains on our taxes that people who chose to have these kids will have an easier time.
You do not know what it is like to have bodily limittions. When your son was born were you unable to pick him up and walk across the room with him? Do you suffer daily pain and exhaustion just from walking to work? BTW my son is not easy, at all, and raising a son when I am disabled is not easy. WE ALL HAVE OUR CHALLEGNES AND THEY ARE VALID. I don't know if your son is overweight, but mine is. He is as risk of diabetes and heart disease and I have to fight with him constantly to meet these challenges. A different problem than yours, but still difficult
All I want is, ultimately, for ableism to go away. In attitudes, in abortion, in archetecture, everything. That is why I posted the disabled 'porn star." People are automatically horrified by disabled people fucking.
LR; I am so sorry to hear that. You have always struck me as an endlessly loving, patient person. And Kevin, I was thinking about your post al night. It made me feel really heard and understood. A rare thing for a person with a disability/
I need to step away for awhile.
I do believe women abort fetuses not only because of the difficulties of raising a child, but because of ableism. There has been much discuss of this in disability studies and there was an article in the New York Times about a woman who aborted a child because of an extra finger. Culture does not, yet, have the perception of disabled people as full human beings. This is reflected in abortion.
You probably don't realize it but your comment about Hawking reflects this opinion You said 'he is who he is because he was not born disabled." Bullshit. A person with the right resources and care CAN be born as disabled as Hawking and stll be an asset to society. I, in fact, am writing a book on someone who couldn't feed himself and needed total care and was one of the most influence people in poetry.
No, I do not know what it is like to have a disabled child. Nor am I saying that anyone should take on that task (or the task of any child). I am saying that once perception of disabled people changes, and they are not viewed as, for example Searching says of their own child drains on our taxes that people who chose to have these kids will have an easier time.
You do not know what it is like to have bodily limittions. When your son was born were you unable to pick him up and walk across the room with him? Do you suffer daily pain and exhaustion just from walking to work? BTW my son is not easy, at all, and raising a son when I am disabled is not easy. WE ALL HAVE OUR CHALLEGNES AND THEY ARE VALID. I don't know if your son is overweight, but mine is. He is as risk of diabetes and heart disease and I have to fight with him constantly to meet these challenges. A different problem than yours, but still difficult
All I want is, ultimately, for ableism to go away. In attitudes, in abortion, in archetecture, everything. That is why I posted the disabled 'porn star." People are automatically horrified by disabled people fucking.
LR; I am so sorry to hear that. You have always struck me as an endlessly loving, patient person. And Kevin, I was thinking about your post al night. It made me feel really heard and understood. A rare thing for a person with a disability/