Christmas plans

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Gar86

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So I was just informed on the Christmas list of things is to do is potentially come out to my wife's(alisvolatpropriis) stuck up mother. She decided that no matter if new guy works out or not that she's tired of lying about who she is inside. My idea Christmas poly cookies. Maybe since we're trying this vee/triad (hard to say the dude is pretty cool) make little triangle cookies. I could make one pink side and two blue sides lmfao. In all seriousness I'm very proud of the inner discoveries she's made in the last 3 months sorting through her feelings and shedding the doubt she has had. I will gladly sit there and defend her any day of the week. Doesn't matter in the end if she has another partner at least she won't live a lie. I'm happy with my mono/poly life. I'm still not wanting a partner besides (alis) but I am happy to see she is putting herself out to try it. No just have to get through this learning curve. Just wanted everyone to know the good news.

Gar 86 29 yr old str8 m married to
Alisvolatpropriis 27 yr old str8 f dating
New guy 34 yr old str8 m
 
Good luck. I was happy to finally be out to everyone, back in February. That said, this holiday has been the hardest - we've announced our engagement and I've now been trash talked by my side of the family and my husband's side of the family. I am worried about Christmas with my boyfriend's family next week. So far things are rough. It is nice to not be living a lie but it's hard as hell to be dumped on by people who like drama and have their own insecurities. Almost a year later and our V is still not acceptable to a lot of our friends and families. It's definitely difficult to be different.
 
Bluebird said:
. So far things are rough. It is nice to not be living a lie but it's hard as hell to be dumped on by people who like drama and have their own insecurities. Almost a year later and our V is still not acceptable to a lot of our friends and families. It's definitely difficult to be different.
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I'm sorry to hear that this is not going well. I'm at the point In my life were if you don't accept my life then leave. Now there will be places I can't talk about this. Even though I haven't had a partner or anything the military would start looking into things, but other than that I'm fairly free and open. I really hope new guy (now aka Dom) will stick around my wife had the biggest smile the other night when we all hung out. 9 months ago alis was very guilty about her thoughts. Now she is more confident and our marriage is so much stronger now. I hope all your upcoming engagements go well. I know everyone is always here but if you need anything I'm always a message away. I haven't learned everything yet but I have learned none judgemental friends are a dime a dozen.
 
Congratulations on alis taking a major step.
 
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