Norwegianpoly
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I plan a legal divorce with my husband (for immigration purposes for my boyfriend). This is a huge sacrifice, and I want to make sure that my husband understands that in my heart nothing has changed. He loved getting married, and I want him to have that feeling still, even if he will not legally be my husband. I have some ideas as to how he could feel I am still as comitted to him:
- We are planning a child.
- We are writing wills, and plan to have them updated every few years to accomodate what we own and who will be benefited and how (will get one for boyfriend too, once he has gotten more property)
- I am thinking of a sort of ceremony, a sort of renewing our marriage vows, perhaps around the same time that we are officially getting divorced. This could be with the two or three of us, or a small gathering with friends and family
I wonder if anyone has done something similar and what they used for their ceremony or other things that could be nice to do to their (ex)husband. He has really been in the backburner lately and I am over the moon happy that he still want to do this, for our small family. I want to show this appreciation to him and I am happy for any tips you may have
- We are planning a child.
- We are writing wills, and plan to have them updated every few years to accomodate what we own and who will be benefited and how (will get one for boyfriend too, once he has gotten more property)
- I am thinking of a sort of ceremony, a sort of renewing our marriage vows, perhaps around the same time that we are officially getting divorced. This could be with the two or three of us, or a small gathering with friends and family
I wonder if anyone has done something similar and what they used for their ceremony or other things that could be nice to do to their (ex)husband. He has really been in the backburner lately and I am over the moon happy that he still want to do this, for our small family. I want to show this appreciation to him and I am happy for any tips you may have