Greetings from CosmoKitty

[CosmoKitty]

Wow, it's been a rather long time since I've been on a forum - I use to use them regularly. They haven't changed much

I'm here to make friends and conversation. I've known of my ability to be in love with multiple people ever since I was a wee one but have only practiced actual polyamory since 2009 or so. It's been an off and on thing really, I'm a very complex being and can get wrapped up in others desires rather easily and I keep running into monogamous partners that want to groom me for that. Eventually I get confused and ask "What am I doing?" and try to give myself space from others to get a good feel for what it is I want and not what others want of me. It's been quite the learning process.

Really I'm looking for support and to speak with more experienced people on how to have a healthy relationship with ourselves and with others. Feel free to ask questions, otherwise I'll see you in the other topics.

<3 CK

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings CosmoKitty,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you are somewhat undecided on whether to be poly, or at least that is the case when a monogamous partner wants to groom you for that. I suggest you do lots of reading on this site, it will help you get an idea of what you are looking for, and you can ask us questions. I wish you well, and hope you can find friends here.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

Notes:

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Welcome aboard!

 

[Shaya]

Hey, welcome to the forums.

It sounds like you identify as poly but keep finding yourself in monogamous relationships because of your partner selection. Are there polyamory groups in your area? Or would you consider starting a poly group yourself on social media and seeing who joins?

 

[Al99]

Hi CosmoKitty - Welcome to the forums! If you have specific questions, try posting to the "Poly Relationships Corner", and you will be sure to get some good feedback there from some very experienced poly veterans.

Best of luck on your continuing poly journey!

Al

 

[CosmoKitty]

Thanks for the welcome guys!

I haven't gotten to really look yet, is there a spiritual section on these forums? Some of my issue might be better posted there if so. But no, there's not really many poly folk around here so that makes it kind of hard. My bf that I had with my husband was long distance and it was awful. I'll get into more details in another part of the forum probably, but thanks again!

 

[Al99]

I haven't gotten to really look yet, is there a spiritual section on these forums?

Yes - there sure is - "Spirituality and Polyamory" is one of the top level sections of the board - not as busy as some of the others, but not without some activity.