Not Like That

D

DaveedDiggsIsAngel

New member
Here's my current situation. Taco still has sex with her ex (E), just doesn't have anymore romance, which is totally fine by me. They meet up every once in a while, sometimes at Taco's place, sometimes at her E's place. Taco always tells me when they're coming over. I was staying over at Taco's with Potato (for movie time) when E showed up at the door. Apparently they were invited. Potato looked heartbroken (he likes Taco, but Taco doesn't know that) and he pulled me closer. Should I be worried about my relationship with Taco?
 
DaveedDiggsIsAngel said:
Here's my current situation. Taco still has sex with her ex (E), just doesn't have anymore romance, which is totally fine by me. They meet up every once in a while, sometimes at Taco's place, sometimes at her E's place. Taco always tells me when they're coming over. I was staying over at Taco's with Potato (for movie time) when E showed up at the door. Apparently they were invited. Potato looked heartbroken (he likes Taco, but Taco doesn't know that) and he pulled me closer. Should I be worried about my relationship with Taco?
Click to expand...

Is E one of those Jealous Mono guys?
 
Marcus said:
Why? Because he had a guest over?
Click to expand...

Taco told me "Oops, sorry, forgot to tell you that this was one of our nights." They only go to eachother's houses for sex.
 
Hi DaveedDiggsIsAngel,

It seems to me that it would be premature to start worrying about your relationship with Taco. Perhaps that will change in the future, but right now I don't see any red flags.

Anyway that's my perspective.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.
 
DaveedDiggsIsAngel said:
Nah, she's poly. She has a girlfriend from Puerto Rico.
Click to expand...

Ah...sorry I assumed it was a guy. So you, Taco, E , and Potato are all poly. What am I missing here? It's almost as if you are fine with having two relationships as long as they don't.

Taco still has sex with her ex (E), just doesn't have anymore romance, which is totally fine by me.
Click to expand...

Would it not be fine if they were romantically involved?

Potato looked heartbroken (he likes Taco, but Taco doesn't know that) and he pulled me closer.
Click to expand...

Why? Does Potato not understand how poly works?

Should I be worried about my relationship with Taco?
Click to expand...

So you bring your boyfriend over for movie night but are questioning your relationship with Taco because she invited a girlfriend over? Again, what am I missing here?

What is your goal here? A poly-fi triad with room for other casual sex partners? What are their goals? Have you guys even discussed any of this?
 
vinsanity0 said:
Ah...sorry I assumed it was a guy. So you, Taco, E , and Potato are all poly. What am I missing here? It's almost as if you are fine with having two relationships as long as they don't.



Would it not be fine if they were romantically involved?



Why? Does Potato not understand how poly works?



So you bring your boyfriend over for movie night but are questioning your relationship with Taco because she invited a girlfriend over? Again, what am I missing here?

What is your goal here? A poly-fi triad with room for other casual sex partners? What are their goals? Have you guys even discussed any of this?
Click to expand...

This was really a trust issue, I would be fine if they told me they were romantically involved, or at least if she was coming over, like she said she always does, but now I'm not sure.
 
So apparently E came over, told us she was invited, and Taco didn't want a fight so she told us that it was planned. She kicked her out after we left and E was also being a dick, so they're no longer sex partners
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top