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Hello, I'm Steve from Manhattan Kansas. So my wife and I (at my request) decided to open our marriage after sixteen years of monogamy. I'm very new to this and have NO idea what I'm doing or how to go about finding another partner other than going to the bar. Are there any really good places on line to meet women who are ok with this lifestyle? Any that work that is? I live in nowhere Kansas and pickings are slim on all the social sites I've managed to find. Any pointers?
 
Greetings Steve,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Usually the best place to start is OKCupid, try that and let me know if you are interested in any additional links. I have some. ;) I hope you have good luck in your search.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Thanks, I started an OK Cupid account and have been talking to a woman on there. I also met someone when I went out for the first night after we decided to do this.

Opening up the marriage was my grand idea and my wife wasn't fully on board with it but then I was her first everything so she doesn't really know what it's like to see anyone but me. I took her out last night and turned her loose and by the end of the night she was making out with some guy and this morning I think she is seeing things a bit differently (in a good way).
 
Hi Steve - welcome to the Forum and best of luck on your open marriage!
 
Glad to hear your wife is feeling better about poly.
 
Glad to hear your wife is feeling better about poly.

Thanks. There is a definite ease in tension between us now over it. Plus I got a girl that's interested in me and is ok with my situation so far. I used to sit around or ride my harley and try to figure out what was wrong or missing from my life. Today I don't feel that. I feel great! It's been one heck of a first week for sure :)
 
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Thanks. There is a definite ease in tension between us now over it. Plus I got a girl that's interested in me and is ok with my situation so far. I used to sit around or ride my harley and try to figure out what was wrong or missing from my life. Today I don't feel that. I feel great! It's been one heck of a first week for sure :)

Read up on NRE and enjoy it...I think it's double for you... Finding nonmonogomy style and practicing it right off... Nice. But do read up
 
Read up on NRE and enjoy it...I think it's double for you... Finding nonmonogomy style and practicing it right off... Nice. But do read up

Thanks. Sorry I haven’t posted in a while but I’m working on two girlfriends right now. My wife is in full swing now and she even had her first real encounter yesterday. Life is good! :)
 
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