Poly and monogamous combined

barry158 said:
Thanks for your reply. My previous relationship ended for unrelated reasons. My ex partner used to have sex with strangers very often.

I am single, but looking for a relationship with a woman who is poly. I haven't met anyone and haven't tried yet.

My concern is this is a kink for me. The idea of my partner having meaningful relationships with other people is appealing.

Should I be looking for a partner based on a kink? Is it common?
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Ah, okay. It sounds like you're interested in something in the cuckolding realm. Fetlife is the place for you. There are lots of cucks over there.
 
Magdlyn said:
Ah, okay. It sounds like you're interested in something in the cuckolding realm. Fetlife is the place for you. There are lots of cucks over there.
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Ah, I know this website. I know a couple (M,F) I used to see who were on it. They said it's good but not big in the UK yet. Most people here use Fab Swingers.
 
barry158 said:
Ah, I know this website. I know a couple (M,F) I used to see who were on it. They said it's good but not big in the UK yet. Most people here use Fab Swingers.
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Fetlife has millions of users and many many many are from the UK, and from Europe. I wouldn't call it US-oriented. I have seen Europeans, Scots, British, Irish all over! It's definitely not just for swingers. In fact, it's not really for swingers much at all, unless you're kinky. It is quite BDSM oriented. Power exchange relationships are popular, which is part of cuckoldry/hotwife/stag-vixen.
 
I think they were comparing it to Fab Swingers, which has so many people on it - it was the primary place my ex partner would meet men. It is a lot more vanilla than Fet!

I have signed up to Fet. It does look a bit out of my comfort zone though!
 
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