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    How do I learn to be OK in non-monogamous relationship?

    My hubby and I originally started swinging together. He then found a regular play partner, they fell in love, and now I’m on my own as far as the Lifestyle is concerned. It didn’t happen overnight, and he discussed it with me. So now, I play alone and am “single” at events. I have had a...
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    How do I learn to be OK in non-monogamous relationship?

    I’m thinking that jumping into polyamory would be really hard for you. Mainly because he would be in various relationships and you’d be left behind. I’m on my third year of poly and I still hate it at times. It makes my husband happy, but I’ve always felt less than when it comes to his GF...
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    Too much kitchen table?

    Without getting into too much detail, I have had a series of relationships of varying seriousness. I would have to admit that my end goal of dating was probably just to have someone to be with when I needed a date or overnight companion. While I like having the freedom to do what I want, I'm...
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    When a partner is struggling because of mental health issues...

    Perhaps your partner is fine with the idea of you having sex with another person....but perhaps they aren't ready to SEE you doing this. Also, what was your partner doing while you went off to have sex? Were they comfortable with lots of friends? Were they sitting alone somewhere waiting for...
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    Too much kitchen table?

    Actually, we’ve been married nearly 30 years. We’ve been open for 7 years. He’s been with his GF for 2 1/2 years.. Our marriage has always been pretty fantastic. I just think my husband is a bad hinge. And I can’t shake the feeling that he isn’t mine anymore. I even feel like the outsider at...
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    Too much kitchen table?

    Over the last couple years, I've had a few meltdowns. At first, he met them with care and concern. But as time went on, he just got angry at me and told me how I was to blame in one way or another. I have had a series of boyfriends and casual sex buddies....and he compares my dating to his...
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    Too much kitchen table?

    Is there such a thing as TOO much kitchen table poly? My relationship with my husband is not doing well over the past few years since he got a GF. We do everything together with his GF. We go everywhere together. I always feel like a third wheel. There is no more "he and I"....just "her and...
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