Recent content by Cam

RE: You guys have been very kind and insightful. Things aren't going terrible right now. I need to do some negotiating on time, I feel that I need more, but we are finding a path.

RE: You are pretty close. As an update, I kinda went off of the wagon last week and lost my mind, it may be understandable, but to me, unacceptable. Her and I are working on us when it is my time. One of the hardest things to get your heart and head to accept is the half time situation. I used...

Was going to be snarky, but hell, I don't know anyone. Do I drink every night, no. Do I drink more than one time per week, yes. Have I had a drink before 5, I've had a drink before 8 - AM. Do I regularly take breaks from it, yes. What more do you want to know. I actually meant having drinks...

She has expressed that she wants to find a second "permanent" relationship. She said she basically wants a second husband. Waiting to explore that little bit until I have being poly down.

She is only speaking to one person romantically. But she, and especially lately, seems to need to be on it constantly. Here is a question for me to try to figure out, is that factual or my perception because of my circumstance. Not actually sure, she has always been on the thing, it's hard to...

Thank you, I do not always do the best job of not being accusatory.

Wow, guess I did make us sound like raging alcoholics, and we may have been close at one point in time. But I just meant that we had drinks during the time. The decisions made were made long before hand. That is not to say that alcohol did not exacerbate this particular issue. Absolutely and...

RE: GalaGirl, I think you and I come from different worlds in regards to the hitting thing, that one doesn't register, please let that go. As far as your second portion, therein lies the heart of it. Here is where I sit. I have asked for one on one time so that her and I can work on bonding...

Re: Ok, the hitting thing happened one time and was because she thought she had caught me cheating. I was not, but things got out of hand. She had an affair over a year ago. New bf started as an affair. I asked her to slow it down, I think they pulled the I love you stuff back. I don't even...

I have been a lurker, but I feel like I would be better served to spit this out. My wife and I have been married for 3 years, this last weekend actually. I had caught her and my best friend in bed together, a couple of times, after a lot of drinks. That was over a year ago and everything was...