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We are having a long engagement (2 years). This way we have a year before we have to start making decisions about a wedding and that sort of thing.

Thanks GalaGirl, that's helpful. Things are a little different than what you laid out since we are engaged and planning a wedding, not just dating, but other than that I think a pro/con list could help me at least know what I'm okay with and not okay with. Thank you.

GalaGirl, thank you for your reply. We have talked about things extensively, it just doesn't seem to get us anywhere. I don't understand why he feels a want or need for someone else and he doesn't understand why it bothers me so much. I think I'm just out of ideas on how to bridge the gap...

Polyamory Motivations My fiancé wants to live a polyamorous lifestyle, but I am having a very difficult time understanding his reasons. He says he wants to do some things in the bedroom that he know's I'm not comfortable with and doesn't want to coerce me into them, but to me that doesn't seem...