Recent content by Cougarwolf

We have location trackers too. Because of our son, we have a curfew on school nights

I kinda had poly tendencies when I was younger, non ethically, but locked it down into monogamy because that was how I was raised to believe was the only way. Poly has popped up now and again on the fringes of my life, show or article type thing. My wife was the one to suggest it to me as she...

Was just wondering, since so many people meet online these days, what safety precautions do you use when meeting someone from online for the first time?

So many of you replied in almost the same way. I do speak up for myself. I let her know how I feel about it. She is a very private person, even with me at times, about some of her issues. She has opened up and begun to talk about some of what was going on with the gentleman she is talking to...

That has hit something inside me, and has given me much food for thought. She has always been the queen and goddess of my world. I guess a part of me is afraid that she would become tarnished, as well as truly letting her go to be her own self. And yes, the fear of her finding someone “better”...

She doesn’t share details about her dates, and I try not to ask too much. And yes, the possibility of her going out with multiple people in a short time span does give me anxiety. I know most of this is because of my own hang ups. I am wanting to understand so I can be supportive, instead of in...

We talked and she admits that she wants to explore this and was ashamed to talk to me about it. That helps, but as I don’t understand that desire, I am having trouble accepting it. Any advice on that part so I can be more supportive would be greatly appreciated

To those that have read my posts, my wife’s first FWB ghosted her a couple of weeks ago. She said she was done with anything NSA and wanted actual dates, and was even talking to someone. That didn’t happen, and tonight she tells me she wants a NSA relationship again, and has even been talking to...

The issue I was having at the time was the person my wife was seeing (he has since ghosted her) was never knowing when the were getting together due to various things, and ended up with her getting a message that he was free and wanted to meet up and she would go to meet him. I find that like...

I got this from another group I am in and really liked it. So I got permission to share it something that gets overlooked when transitioning from monogamy to polyamory. A monogamous couple tends to assume on an unconscious level time that isn't specifically planned for something else will be...

I was just wondering if anyone else has to deal with the small town rumor mill when trying to date a paramour. Honestly, I have met people over 100 miles away that know some of my family. Of course, I am not out to my family, for various reasons, so I kinda dread the phone call saying, “So & so...

OH HELL NO!!!!!

For me, they tried Wellbutrin, but OH HELL NO, hit with too many bad side affects. Wife was on Gabapentin

The way we did it was me and the wife set our boundaries with our relationship, like how involved with the other paramours or something similar, and let them set what boundaries they want for their relationship. The schedule is just to help plan things and make sure we spend time with each other...