Recent content by dansemacabre

Everything you said in your post makes a lot of sense. Yes, we did all use protection prior to getting STI tested. Everything came back negative, so we stopped using it. I get tested at least every 6 months or more frequently depending on risk factors. I was the one who suggested we be tested...

Oh no, I'm not worried they're going to do anything crazy. I'm just nervous about it in the regular way.

It's my first poly breakup. I thought I wasn't gonna end up a unicorn but I was wrong. I guess I'm nervous because I'm breaking up with two people at once and I'm nervous it'll make them upset. Even though it doesn't matter once we're broken up anyway.

Hi all. I (19f) posted a bit back about how I disliked threesomes and didn't know if it was normal. Since posting that, I've realized the entire relationship I'm in is bad for me. The couple I'm dating (21f and 21m) have been together for 3 years. They said they wanted a third life partner. But...

I've been wanting to date other people because this relationship really isn't giving me what I need. In fact, I've been feeling generally depressed and anxious for the past few weeks and I 100% attribute it to the relationship. They wanted it closed and I was fine with that, until these things...

I definitely am a +1 to them. It's become more obvious the longer we date. They straight up said they wanted a girlfriend because our boyfriend works all the time so there's no one with our girlfriend, and they thought another girlfriend was a solution.

Yes, they were a couple before this. I like dating both of them, separately and together. I'm just struggling a lot with the things I posted about.

Hi all. I'm in a closed FFM triad, and have been for over a month now. For reference, I'm the newest member of this triad. One thing I've noticed is I'm really starting to dislike threesomes. It was fun at first but now it just sucks the life out of me. Last night we had a threesome and I felt...