Recent content by Dcisne

Thank you for all of the responses. Third person perspectives help. For anyone who doesn't know. I'm a mono in a poly relationship and I've been making a lot of progress in feeling comfortable in this relationship structure. I've been talking with her SO and building a friendship. This is her...

Can anyone give me advice on the best way to ask for more of her time? Currently we're a long distance away, we call each other before we go to sleep, and I'll call before I go to work. She doesn't always answer, and when she does she's completely exhausted. I know she talks with her OSO during...

Deponty: Thank you for the insight. I thought a lot on what your response, and the more I think about it the more I realize that I really am in love with her. She just lets me be me, and I guess she just lets him be him too. There's nothing wrong with that. I won't claim that I'm done feeling...

Not that she's told me of, and it doesn't seem like she does to me. I've told her my stance on the topic, that if I feel like I can't handle the relationship, I'll be the one to leave. She says she'd chase* me. I don't want her to be unhappy, but likewise I won't kill myself internally if this...

I definitely feel like I'm not enough. She meets all of my needs in a relationship, there isn't anything about anyone else I encounter that makes me romantically interested. I make deep emotional connections with other people, but it's never romantic feelings. I feel like there's something I'm...

Thanks for the responses. I've spoken with her, being completely honest about my feelings. I told her that I'll really work on understanding it all and making this work. She says that if I truly can't live like this she'd break it off with him, and that if I asked her to, she would. I love her...

First off, hello. I'm new to the poly scene and to be frank, I don't know what to do. I fell in love with a poly woman and so here I am. I'm looking for advice for how to handle the structure. I consider myself mono, and I'm finding myself incredibly jealous of the time my partner spends with...