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I'm thinking for some people it might be better to cut off communication cold turkey, but for some people, even if they don't hookup or...

She’s not sure if she is actually poly. She said she just wants a hotwife relationship with poly elements. She likes the idea of dealing...

I really appreciate that. I know it’s not easy to cut it off. I’m trying to be understanding of that, since I know my wife connects and...

I'm so sorry this happened to you, man. I have to admit I'm in a similar situation except I'm the other guy. My girlfriend was forced to...

Thanks. It was never my intention to dictate every step. As we went through, I tried to discuss rules and boundaries and what made me...

Strong feelings will likely happen if she meets a person regularly (not with everyone, but there will be such a person). I have read...

Thank you for the perspective. I think both what she and I are asking for is somewhere between hotwifing and poly. She has mentioned she...

Hi Indie! :) Yeah, you really can't force your wife to only be interested in a guy who will somehow also be immediately interested in...

All this being said, what type of relationship structure would we be seeking if we moved forward? She wants to play with just one...

Hi! I also read some hotwife/cuckold forums from time to time and this sort of thing can happen. The problem is that many men see...

This all makes sense. We have closed the relationship for now while we make sense of everything and fix our boundaries. We started...

She might be doing and saying things partly to spare your feelings, but partly because she is battling her own monogamous conditioning...

Thanks for your message. What you say about NRE makes sense and we have started to have these conversations. When she is in NRE, she...

Some people can do hotwife stuff, or stag/vixen, or cuckolding, or swinging, and some can't. Personally, I think those casual, sport...

Thank you for that. I feel like this is where it's heading, either back to monogamy or a version of poly that works for both of us. When...