Thank you for that. I feel like this is where its heading, either back to monogomy or a version or poly that works for both of us. When she "cheated" and I asked for her to be accountable, she continued to refer to it as not cheating and that she was putting her foot down and finding her voice...
Me and my wife have been on quite the journey and has led us to a place where she has told me she believes she is either poly or demi sexual. We have been in a cuck or stag/vixen lifestyle the last few years, which I initially asked to share her. We started online for a few years and then moved...