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    New/Old Member

    Hello all! I haven't logged on to this board since sometime in 2011 so I thought a new intro would be a good idea. lol My name is Rebecca. I go by Avi. I'm from Texas. A writer, singer, musician, and currently enjoying a mission to taste all the high-end chocolate on earth if possible. My...
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    Is male sex drive a myth???

    I am seriously considering having myself sterilized after reading all this stuff about women who turn 40 suddenly being insatiable. Damn.
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    New and confused (and tired)

    I am not practicing poly so I cant really give practical advice. But I can say that something that may help you to relax (and get better sleep) is the knowledge that; 1. You cannot own your partner, no matter how much you love them. They belong exclusively to themselves. Therefor, you are...
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    Is male sex drive a myth???

    Lol so interesting to read all these "records" for guys. And it's really really sad to me for my own relationship be use my guy's record was WAY higher. (not to brag, but he more than doubled the highest record in here. And i verified it.) so why the sudden utter lack? And for my clients, why...
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    Is male sex drive a myth???

    I know it is very mixed. Because all women are different just like all men are different. I guess I am just hoping for some advice to give to my clients and to use myself to get more sex out of our partners. I mean, the ladies i am talking about are a long way from nymphs. But I think when...
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    Is male sex drive a myth???

    Well, I am glad to see there are a few men on here who still would drop computer time for sex! Lol
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    Is male sex drive a myth???

    That's actually helpful. I have noticed that there seem to be at least as many poly women as men also. Which supports this theory.
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    Advice?

    I have to agree with NYC. It sounds like this man has, through years of emotional betrayal and abuse (and yes, that's what it is) transitioned you from loving wife to obedient but unwitting slave. Any man who is under the delusion that all he need do is keep a woman physically safe from...
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    Polyamory and Friendship

    Here is the bottom line: if you had to choose your longtime friend or your new love, who gets the preverbal drumstick? Until you know the answer to that question, you are on very shaky ground, regardless of how he does or doesn't feel about your connection with her. Also, where does it stand...
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    Is male sex drive a myth???

    I have to ask this question because frankly it is driving me crazy. First, I work as a professional (yes yes... Laugh if it's funny. Lol) psychic. That's how I make my living. I say that only to explain where I am getting the basis on which I ask the title question. Is male sex drive all just...
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    On being called a "whore"

    It is actually a policy of criminal profilers NEVER ever to profile anyone under 18 Because all teenAgers profile as some variety of sociopath. (real life fact) I didn't go to school so I have no die what this dynamic is like. But I have to say, based on what you wrote here, there is probably a...
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    Relationship issues/Sexual frustration

    Isn't part of the point of poly to be able to bring more people into your life to meet all needs In a safe loving way? Maybe a new sexual partner needs to be courted. Not sure I understand enough to offer any ideas though.
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    Hey. :) saw your post in the new to poly section. Seems like hour having a hard go of it right...

    Hey. :) saw your post in the new to poly section. Seems like hour having a hard go of it right now. *hugs*
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    Husband crossed boundary and now I'm hurt and don't know what to do

    Wow, this is a tough situation overall. I think that first thing that really stands out to me in your post is that you didn't state why you went snooping in the first place. What triggered that? It sounds like there are already underlying trust issues on your part, which means there are...
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    A request: state your gender and sexual preference/orientation

    Genderqueer, assigned female at birth, pansexual. Heck, if dolphins could speak English, i would find them sexy. O.o
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