gmike

Re: "I don't see many (or any) posts from guys like me where the spouse is unwilling to have anything to do with it.
I want to go it alone, there is a local Meetup group in my area. Will most polys view me an nothing more than an unethical cheater looking for action?"

If you do not have your spouse's consent, that is a problem. Of course you don't have to admit that you don't have your spouse's consent, but that is an additional problem.

I don’t see many (or any) posts from guys like me where the spouse is unwilling to have anything to do with it
I want to go it alone, there is a local Meetup group in my area. Will most polys view me an nothing more than an unethical cheater looking for action?

Re: "Hi kdt. You seem to be very actively involved in the group. I am brand new and have questions if you have the time to answer thanks!"

Not a problem, just let me know what your questions are.