Recent content by innerstrengh800

I think I'm hoping if there's a chance of a poly relationship, I want it to work in the healthiest way. I don't it to feel like there's "love bombing" or clinginess or neediness. I appreciate my best friend so much. I don't want to feel like there are no chances there, going both ways with us. I...

I meant this figuratively. There's nothing negative or forceful about how she acts with me. I'm talking about there are definite hints of her liking me, and I'm shy and cautious about it. Like, she stares deeply at me, or wants to hold my hand. It's very innocent. I'm the single person and I...

Long story. I made a post before about this situation. [Mod note: Here is the original thread for reference. https://polyamory.com/threads/my-best-friends-love-triangle-problem-with-me-and-her-partner-seemingly-open-poly-relationship.157918/ ] I'm trying to find a good way of asking what's...

Thanks. I appreciate this. I really like her, but I really don't want to jump the gun, even when she's so obviously flirting or hinting that she likes me. I don't want her to feel like I'm rejecting her, either. I love treating her as my friend.

I generally don't believe his behaviour is due to his gender. I know plenty of women who are abrasive and insensitive. A lot of men in my life never question when they're told to do a job by their female partner. This 100% depends on the person and scenario. I can be quite abrasive as a lesbian...

I do get a mixed feeling of what he's like. He's loving towards her, but I think there are definitely clashes when it comes to her interests. I wouldn't say he's the supportive type, but there's the element of "You can do what you want." I just wish I didn't see him be rude to her, because it...

Hi, No, I don't have a partner. I am a lesbian. I have no desire to flirt with anyone (kinda apart from her). It's annoying, because she does get jealous when I have another female friend that's not her. Her protection towards me definitely shows a lot, and she's generally not a jealous person...

It is a very long story, so I'll keep it short. Basically, there's some tension between us romantically. I believe her partner knows, but it's not been a real discussion on the clarity of consent, just a lot of hints of how we are. Like, there's no label at the moment, but we're definitely very...