Recent content by Kittykate

Thanks for the advice and stories everyone. We told our parents on all 3 ends and so far the only one who isn't supportive are mine like usual. But I told her pretty much she can't stop it I am an adult and this is my choice. Soon to be ex husband is being really supportive through all of this...

My mother has already openly stated that if there is anyone else she won't accept because she doesn't believe in messing around with the married. While it hurts it is her loss. Both of the partners involved are great people they just got thrown into a bad spot.

We have been dating for a good while and he understands what he is jumping into. There are a few people on my husbands side as well so we are going to let others know that yes there are others involved. I don't have a job, but am looking. We are still working out the details. Husband is upset...

I need some advice. My husband and I have been poly for 3 years now, and poly or not we've had a lot of issues. He has lied and cheated numerous times, has a gambling problem, and really an honesty issue all together. Whenever we fight everything is always my fault no matter what. Even if we've...

Know what? I hope you don't love him more than anything. That you would leave if he started beating you up or murdered a child or something. I love my husband, but I would leave the second he even did anything harmful to myself or my children. I have been in an abusive relationship and that is...

Thank you guys for all the posts. To clarify a few things we have always been super open with eachother about the others relationships. And finally after quite a few fights my husband broke down and let everything out which is what we were all waiting for. He usually doesn't hold stuff in but...

Usually we tell each other everything. This is the first time he has every told me to just straight up not answer him, or lie about answers with someone. So it is a new territory.

I seriously hate, hate, hate, and hate when someone new comes in. I hate how it turns everything upside down within the group. A little background, I have my husband and a boyfriend who has been off and on for two years, and I just added a new one into the mix. As usual it has thrown everything...

Only other struggle is with my husbands but his is he can't find anyone to make a connection with so its hard on him when I find someone that I do make a connection with. It kinda upsets him a little. So it makes me feel like I'm wrong in a sense.

Has anyone dealt with it? I used to be in an abusive relationship in high school and it made mono dating hard, until I found my amazing husband, but it seems to be making poly that much harder. I feel safer when I am with more than one person so I feel like I look past the flaws that most the...

My husband and I have been poly for about 3 years now. We are trying to find good places to look for other poly people or just people in general to date. Okcupid in our area for Jacksonville Florida has a bunch of people who are pretty much just looking for FWB, and fetlife has turned up people...

It's more so about her calling me crazy and pyscho and leading him into this. As well as if he bring her around me or my daughter I want a way to not have that happen especially with the blatant disrespect and the crazy comments and a baby on the way.

My husband and I are divorcing. I have had to stay in North Carolina with family because of our roommates and his girlfriend not allowing me back into their house. I found out that my husband and her were having sex and a relationship behind my back, even while I was there pregnant with his...

They have been incredibly disrespectful throughout this entire ordeal. Emotionally blackmailing me every step of the way. I told my husband she goes or I do.

Pretty much he keeps telling me that I made him suffer and he could've divorced me any time. And that nobody can change and my sorry and realizing my mistakes means nothing. I told him they were being ridiculous fighting over simply having the title boyfriend/girlfriend right now because they...