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    mono/poly relationship

    Thank you for your questions. It helps to have a thoughtful conversation and not just one laced with fear. He’s not afraid of me having partners he doesn’t know about. I can’t lie or keep my own secrets very well. We’ve been married for 15+ yrs. He knows I don’t want to marry someone else. He’s...
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    mono/poly relationship

    A little more explanation... I was with my bf who I’d been with since high school when my husband and I started dating. Bf and I had an open relationship, kind of a don’t ask don’t tell. We were kids and had no idea polyamory was a thing. My husband (not at the time) was completely aware and...
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    mono/poly relationship

    Thank you all for your comments. Therapy (again) is definitely next up. Uggg there are just so many facets to this situation. I just wish it could be easier. It frustrating because we’ve been poly before. I just don’t understand why he’d get involved with me while I was with and loved someone...
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    mono/poly relationship

    Hi! Long story short, my husband and I have been trying to deal with my being poly for almost 3 years now. We have been married for 15+ years, we have 2 kids and no desire to divorce. His ability to deal with my involvement with another person comes and goes. He’s basically decided that the...
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    Mono to poly to mono

    Sorry, still trying to get used to the format and functionality! 😊
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    Mono to poly to mono

    We kind of discussed things after the baby was born but he was relatively comfortable with what was going on between bf and I. He noticed it ramped up our sex life and so he was mostly on board. He knew seeing my bf in person wasn’t going to happen often if ever. It made it easier for him to...
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    Mono to poly to mono

    Thank you so much! It’s so true we don’t know how life will change. Your thoughts bring me hope.
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    Mono to poly to mono

    Sorry if this is confusing and thanks for your reply. I get where you’re coming from. Generally I’m not miserable. I’ve always wanted to be a mother. Raising kids is something I love. I know it’s not for everyone but for me it is. I’m all in for it. I love my husband he’s grown into a great dad...
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    Mono to poly to mono

    My husband and I have been in and out of monogamy our whole 18+ yrs together. The latest round was a doozy. I’m poly and he’s mono. I had a LDR with my HS boyfriend for 2+ yrs. The hubs basically came to accept it. We texted all the time and sexted some. There was talk of us seeing each other...
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