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    Disregard all my previous posts. People change to suit their own wants and desires. Never say...

    Disregard all my previous posts. People change to suit their own wants and desires. Never say forever or never. Want a true example of a fully functioning mono poly relationship where the mono is totally cool with new partners being added? Keep looking because I have yet to meet or be one...
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    Having the strength to do what’s right

    I find myself reading this post again. I'm looking for answers internally, but have already answered the same questions. I did it in black and white. What will be the measure of who I am, based on what l've learned? Will it be doing as l have always said l would, based on who l was? Or will l...
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    Redpepper's journey

    You know how to pick nice people to bring into your life, Lilo. :) Love you!
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    Welcome to the forum and I think it's great you are so open! Great pics :)

    Welcome to the forum and I think it's great you are so open! Great pics :)
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    Motorcycles anyone?

    Thanks, I'll be honest though, I sit 23 inches off the road and there is no give in this bike - every bump radiates through my spine if I'm not ready for it.... AND I wouldn't have it any other way LOL! That new bike looks like a street brawler..flat out mean and powerful. Scratch away!
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    You're always welcome :D
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Simple happy things This past weekend Redpepper's hubby had his birthday party. We all pitched in throughout the night to make sure our friends and family were looked after and it truned out great! Derby spent the night with Redpepper in her room and I "fell asleep" with my earbuds in and...
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    Motorcycles anyone?

    Very nice ride plyFM!
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    Motorcycles anyone?

    Luckily I live in one of the only Canadian spots where you can comfortably ride all year long. BIking is spiritual thing for me. I don't care how long the ride or where it takes me. It's about how I feel, not what I see :) And here is my girlfriend LOL!
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    Redpepper's journey

    He's not just lovely, he's my role model! ;)
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    Is hierarchy problematic or just fine?

    Spell check exists as well but apparently I haven't figured that out yet :-P
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    Is hierarchy problematic or just fine?

    Impact across a broader spectrum creates varying levels of individual importance. This creates a natural hierarchy . In the case where a person is a 'single poly' for lack of a better term, and basically has the same level of involvement with multiple partners then I would imagine their...
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    sexual dysfunction with new partners

    I'm with Dinged on this. The more connected you are, the more your body will respond, most likely. At least, that is my experience. Also, the more times you are with a partner, the more your levels of comfort and 'staying power' should increase.
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    Monogamous in a Polyamorous relationship

    Wow. This is an old post but I'm glad there is still value in it :-) you are welcome!
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    Redpepper's journey

    :) nice to have you home Lilo...I missed you. XOXXOOX I love you. Your men hung out and had a good time!
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