Recent content by NewPolyGuy66

Yup. Very accurate. 😉

Lol. Clones. Oh no, not even close. Good observation on the Leather Bear and Muscle Daddy. G2 and G1.

All of this is very good. It's mostly accurate, and I appreciate the insights, for sure. G2 is the more spontaneous of all of us. He was the one I actually thought I'd bond to first. 😆 But your words make sense. G1 and I have both been pleasantly cool with where we are. I'm going as slowly...

Yup. You are correct, and I keep wanting to rescue and save him, and that's just all kinds of whacked-out silliness on my part. Thank you, as always.

Sadly, that is where he is on his journey. He did call me to talk about it, said he was afraid he would hurt me. I reminded him the reasons why I still have the FOMO with him, and that I don't have the issues with G1. The whole fukking world is tapping what I have not. Lol He did assure me that...

And the story continues. G1 met a married guy last night, did the stuff and the hookup left. Boom. He told me all about it, I gave him the electronic high five, and said I'm happy for you. Compersion success. I am happy he is happy. Again, with G1 I know what's there, inside and out. Here's...

Thank you. Gawd, I sure hope so.

Well, today and this weekend are the biggest tests I've had to date. Both guys are pretty much having a whore fest at their respective weekend get-aways. I'm here working. Lol. Here's how I feel on the compersion aspects. Guy 1: I'm so totally okay with it, I wanna hear every detail, and...

No real rhyme or reason for this one, just a stream of thinking. Communication with the 3 of us is going rather well. I'm learning, actually we are all learning, our styles and preferences of how we prefer to communicate via text, or voice call or vid call and how often. They have usually...

Yup. I'm learning. We talked awhile later and it's all very good. He's happy, and that is what I have to remember.

Some days are easier than others in the world of polyamory. Some days, in our open triad, we are all perfectly fine with the others getting out there and getting a little sumthin sumthin. We even joke and kid and share the weiner pics with each other, and say, "Yeah baby, go get that." 😆 And...

😆 I'm grinning and choked on my coffee. Thank you. Lol. I I can see you are very sex positive, that was never a question. 😉

Fast update. I had a great phone chat with both guys last night. 👌 It went great on all fronts. I introduced the open triad words. Nobody freaked out. J did want to clarify the difference between a throuple, which we all agreed we are not, and this new open triad term. We all agree that fits...

Thanks for your concern. I'm well aware of my attachment style and I work every day towards making me a better person.

We discussed it. Lol I will be returning to the good morning text messages. We agreed that is not emotionally charged and needy. Lol