Recent content by NilNil

I appreciate all the comments and opinions. I'm not offended at all by the comments. I like hearing many different opinions. That’s why I joined, to get different ideas and takes on a situation. Once again, thank you all. The situation has been fixed and all members are happy.

Hi, Kevin. Yeah, we worked it all out. Thanks to everyone for pitching in their thoughts. It really helped. Being so new to this, it’s great to find a place to openly talk to like-minded people. I'll take a look at the sites. Much appreciated. Thanks.

Bit off topic but are there any apps or recommend sites in finding new partners? Wife’s been using tinder for awhile now but wants to see if there are specific poly apps. thanks

Since they been seeing each other, he has just paid for the rooms. It hasn’t been a big deal. He was the one to offer to do this. My wife was just feeling bad that he does pay for it all, and now wants to contribute. We all worked it out. I just wanted to see what the community thought about it...

Thanks for all the advice. I really appreciate it. We are going to split it to be fair to all. Thank you.

Thank you for your reply. I think the cost is far more then I’ll be willing to pay, considering she only met this now regular less then two months ago. Plus she has already decided on a birthday present, on top of paying for the room.

Hi all, I am just seeking some advice on my situation. My wife's regular generally meets up with her in a hotel room for the night, which he pays for. It’s his birthday coming up and they have decided to go spend the night in a hotel room, like they always do. However, because it was a last...

Hi thanks for the welcome. Kidney should be okay see how the operation goes, then I really can start in this lifestyle. Wife’s got a few months head start but that’s fine she seems to be loving it. She’s found a couple of regulars. I’ll definitely take a look at the book. We really are new to...

Hi, my wife and I are new to poly. We wanted something new and different in our lives. As we were each other’s firsts for almost everything, we always had an open option to see others people if we desired. Until recently and my many kidney issues my wife after 10 years ask if she could invoke...