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Hi. It's very common to feel demoted, displaced and intruded upon when your partner's feelings for a new person seem to take priority...

I agree with the idea of working within the dyad instead of trying to veto. It is at this point is not really working. I think a more...

Some people can do hotwife stuff, or stag/vixen, or cuckolding, or swinging, and some can't. Personally, I think those casual, sport...

Hi! I also read some hotwife/cuckold forums from time to time and this sort of thing can happen. The problem is that many men see...

I think you need to talk about what he really wants. It seems he is changing his original position, so his intentions need to be...

Hi! A bloody unicorn here. Beautiful conversation and it looks like you are really doing your best to prepare the ground for an ethical...

I'm starting to think that maybe it is just my first "real" love that hasn't required any performing and hiding on my part. She...

To expand on "You don't have a metamour problem, you have a hinge problem," here are some common meta problems that are actually hinge...

Hi! It seems your relationship is still relatively new. The truth is that there are many kinds of love (as mentioned above ERI, NRE, and...

I know this feels like general advice, but maybe you need to find another lover that does not cross any boundaries. If sex drive is an...

Hi! Reading your deep analysis of unicorn hunting and sensitivity to the sitatuation, I think you might have a shot at doing well in...

Hi! Polyamory mixed in with sexual orientation issues can complicate things. I can see that you are really trying to solve the...