sorry if this is a double post!. just getting the hang of the site.
My wife wants to go Poly after 20 years ...
We have 3 kids... and want to live together in the matrimonial home....
I have told her that I'm OK with it - as I don't want to be her ball and chain... I also said I don't want to drag a new woman that I may meet into something that is a big disappointment.... It may be unlikely that I'll find a gal to love that is OK with sharing me physically with my wife... So she may have to lose me as a physical partner.... and Our living situation together in the matrimonial home could be challenged - or need separate apartments to be constructed - or even 2 separate residences...
My wife wants to go Poly after 20 years ...
We have 3 kids... and want to live together in the matrimonial home....
I have told her that I'm OK with it - as I don't want to be her ball and chain... I also said I don't want to drag a new woman that I may meet into something that is a big disappointment.... It may be unlikely that I'll find a gal to love that is OK with sharing me physically with my wife... So she may have to lose me as a physical partner.... and Our living situation together in the matrimonial home could be challenged - or need separate apartments to be constructed - or even 2 separate residences...