Recent content by pixybixy

That's a new perspective for me, thanks.

That's a new perspective for me, thanks.

More clarification Nooo, I'm not considering breaking up at all! Yes, he absolutely respects me and is not forcing me to do anything that I don't want to. As mentioned in my reply to Opalescent: I wish to clarify a few things at this point: (1) I will not say that I will never be into PIV...

Some important clarification Hi opalescent, yes, I agree with your above points. Many others here have also concurred with you on these. Ah, thanks for the advice. Others have also given similar advice here! (Sorry guys, too many posts, too many users...I'm lazy to pick out your exact names...

I see, thanks for sharing. I never thought of it from that perspective. I can see why "unicorn" has negative connotations. But for us, we are not looking for unicorns just for sex. If we ever find someone like that, we will also build a relationship with her. Personal preference I think. I...

Because we are very new to poly in the practical sense of the word. And one of the main reasons I fell for my bf is cos of the immense amount of security that he provides me with. so you're right in a way, pri-sec model is used as a protective mechanism here. Yes, we completely agree with you...

Well, cos previously I had a 4 year romantic and physical relationship with a girl. Prior to meeting my bf, I never thought that I could maintain a romantic and/or physical relationship with a guy. Maybe it's due to my minimal interaction with guys during my teens (I was in an all-girls high...

We've been together for almost 1.5 years alrdy. Hmm, you have a point there abt the experience being new. Cos previously I've only had intimate encounters with ONE girl. And the most we did was using our fingers sooo... True.. But I'm afraid 1.5 years is a bit too long... I agree with you...

Hi Bey, thanks for the warm welcome. :) Yes, we are open to this... It isn't fair to him if I don't allow him to find satisfaction elsewhere. We talk to people on dating apps together. It's always about US as a couple and not about HIM or MYSELF alone chatting to potential dates. But, is it...

Hi folks. I'll start off by giving some basic info abt my bf and I. Him: Turning 40 this year. Straight cisgender male. Believes that he is polyamorous, but have not tried IRL. Me: I'm in my 20s. Before I met my bf (we met in 2015), I'd always believed that I was lesbian. But after becoming...