Recent content by Poly wolf

Update for anyone who is still following, or stumbles across this later: My wife's GF came to visit on Thanksgiving day and stayed 2 nights. Things were civil but tense between me and my wife. My wife kept distance between herself and her GF, not wanting to be affectionate with her, but not me...

So that's basically the system we are operating under now. I understand why my wife has asked for the 24 hour window and am more then willing to respect it under current conditions. Between the distance (more than 2 hour drive) and her GFs work schedule they have limited windows of opportunity...

Somehow I doubt it would make it appealing enough for the wife's GF. 🤣

Tainted was her word, not mine. I don't feel like my question could/should have done that but eh, it's not my memory. so I have to take her word for it. Yup, proximity to the event seems to be the key issue at hand. I'll definitely work on waiting next time. I did try to have a convo about how...

First I want to thank everyone who has taken the time to respond. It has been very helpful getting some outside perspective on the situation. I'll plead ignorance on this one. It has never bothered me in the past when my wife has had solo encounters with other men. So I assumed the shower...

This, thank you. I am really bad with words. At the time, I thought I had made it clear enough. Really though, that situation was just the catalyst for our fight. The real problem revolves around how and when I brought up the topic of conversation. I felt justified in bringing up when I did. My...

The bed isn't an issue, because we have a guest room. And them using our bed also wouldn't bother me. We are talking through how to handle it. Wife is talking about a 24 hour window of me not cumming in her prior to GG visits. And of course, showering. The real issue is how I brought up and...

This. Sorry all for not being clearer. I wrote that late last night and was trying to not be overly graphic.

Them having sex doesn't stop us. She doesn't want me and her having sex recently be a show stopper for if they go to mess around. Evie had the correct answer. Sorry, I wrote that late last night and was trying to not be overly graphic.

My wife (we will call her F) recently began dating another woman (C). C and I are strictly metamours, due to C not being interested in men. This isn't a problem for me, because C and I get along extremely well. We have similar interests and senses of humor, and obviously the same taste in women...

Hello, I've been browsing these forums for awhile, reading about others' experiences, and decided to take the plunge today by making making an account. My wife and I are both 39 and have been married for over 15 years. Our shared journey with polyamory began years ago when my wife let it slip...