Recent content by rainfairy

funny, I was thinking about that yesterday. :) it is quite easy for me because I speak swiss german with my husband, and english with my boyfriend. so the petnames are different anyway. by the way, I found out that petnames don't have to be special at all. my boyfriend is just melting away...

congratulations!!! :) this is such a great moment! I wasn't able to breathe for a few seconds when my boyfriend told me the first time.......

hi all! my boyfriend and I don't have anywhere to go to be alone. his place is crowded with his family and my place is taboo (one of the limits I agreed with my husband). normally we can only meet during daytime, so a hotel room is not the best solution. and we both have a dog... I am sure...

thanks magdlyn! :)

if you are talking about me, I didn't say this. I didn't say "save the relationship". I mean she should tell him, that she plans to stay with him. that's not the same. I think it is important to tell the partner, that you are not starting to look around for someone next. please don't...

dear ash I am not an experienced poly but I just had this conversation with my husband. I would say: ask him! make sure you let him know how much he means to you. and let him know that this is actually something you consider because you want to stay together with him. what would be the worst...

dear all I am not looking for advice at the moment, I just want to share. :) tomorrow I will meet my lover. for the first time we will have a place to be alone and go to bed together. this is so exciting and I can't wait. I didn't have lighthearted and let-yourself-go-sex for many years. and...

dear jane thank you for your answer. I can feel I am at the right place here. it feels good not to have to justify my needs and the relationship with my husband. I was trying to find a discussion in a more general online forum and just got answers like "leave your husband, who is obviously not...

oh no! it is Insecurity and not Unsecurity. embarrassing. :( english is not my mother tongue. could someone change this?

hi all my husband and I are just starting a new period of our relationship. we are married since 7 years and he has caused by illness no contact to his sensual feelings, since more than 7 years. he is working on it. because I suffer we agreed that I am allowed to have sexual encounters with...

hi all english is not my mother tongue as you will see. so I might sometimes need to ask again if I don't understand something. but there is no comparable forum in german. I am 48 and married since 7 years to the love of my life, 36. the relationship is very strong and we are very close to...