Recent content by sabrina8

Hey! Great that you are raising this topic. I am also bi but I do not circulate in the LGBTQI+ community where I live exactly because we have no shared values (I think as a woman it is a bit different, I guess). I believe this objectification is a part of capitalism and pinkwashing very...

Sorry to put it so but reading this just drove me crazy... Your husband's behaviour to you is unacceptable. From everything you have written, I never saw you and your needs in this relationship considered by him. Like... where was he when you were going out of the room and crying? Why did you...

Congrats! People deserve to have good sex once in a while, damn it! Still, you had yahtzee (phaha, your joke with the video is good) in the family house, I guess? Does his wife live there? Did you see her stuff, did you two talk about that? I mean, you don't need to straight away but...

Hey! I would hate to be a killjoy but beware. To me, the most important would be - does this wife of his live with him, does she know about you? Make sure she does, I would say. Because you are hyped up, I can literally see and recognize myself when I get enthusiastic about someone in what you...

I really agree with what all of you say, that's why this is indeed my favorite forum. Because to be poly and to be good kinky, and be ethical on top of that makes you a very hard working person, doing a lot of inner work and caring about others, I believe! Ugh, when I wrote this thread, I...

Just so many resources on narcs say how they are "kinky af", sex is lustful etc. Probably that's not true. I have no idea. It's just when people say after abuse "you need to know what healthy sex looks like", I am like... well, what do you mean? Healthy as in not kinky? Anyways, I decided...

Hey, people! I wanted to open this topic up here, excuse me if it already exists (would be happy to get the link of a thread about it). I am recently recovering from a narcissistic relationship and sexual abuse. It is a very complicated journey for me and it is hard to articulate the problem...

I completely agree with your opinion about the situation. You are expressing it very kindly, also. Joseph has decided what his boundary is. Basically the guys have decided what works for them and for their friendship. Of course their friendship is more important than a potential relationship...

I will speak from experience here. I dated a person in prison for 2 years and what I can say is, sorry for the imperative but - DO NOT SELF-SACRIFICE. I did this sleep-with-others-while-he-is-in. It did not work out. The moment there was another guy I was sleeping with, it turned into this huge...

Well, if he really wanted to be with me, he would have stayed and worked it through. What he did is humiliate me, escape and then suggest what I had suggested for us before - doing therapy together etc. So really fuck him! These days I started recalling some really petty fights (when things...

He wrote to a friend that he is trying to go to therapy in the States, hoping he can come back and go to therapy together and save our relationship. That he panicked because of his trauma and now he cannot tell me because I blocked him everywhere. AHAHHAHAHAHA, nice one, Mr. Hoover! Seriously...

I'm sitting here, finally in my own place. He finally left and he left a mess. I was cleaning the house all day, not being able to believe that this is over, wow. He left telling me that he did not want to go but he had no choice, I made him. God damn right I did! I am super grateful it is over...

Because the marriage agreement would make the assessment of who has what property more expensive, I dropped the offer. A couple of days ago when I was crying that I don't have the money for divorce and I need to probably sell my body to have it, he told me he will pay for it. That he wants...

Last night was the first night when I actually slept more than a couple of hours. There were 3 days of me not sleeping and chain smoking. Just waves of cold, like the cold when it's not cold around but you feel it. Shaking. Anxiety. Anger. Pain. Yesterday I tried my wedding suit on and it was...

Do you mind some clarifying questions? How did she break up with you? She admitted that she was cheating on you and called it off? Were you in a strictly monogamous relationship? You are saying she expressed a desire to be with people, did you say that't ok and lied so you could be together...