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    Privacy

    In fact any guide to deleting my whole profile would be helpful.
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    Privacy

    It seems my post are being read by a person I choose not to be involved with. I suspect also she has an account here just to watch me now. That is how it appears anyway. I thank you all for the helpful advice and discussion but for now it looks like I need to leave for a while. I really hope...
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    A woman or a weed?

    Given more thought, no him telling me he would rather be with her wouldn't make any aspect easier. After coming down from this I see once again he just wants me to listen. Part of the growing process I imagine as we are still learning each other. After the spew things calmed greatly. He didn't...
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    how to explain to partner

    We are conditioned to believe in monogamy and that's hard to deal with I think. He probably feels like he should be able to meet every need when honestly I don't believe that's ever one persons job. The relationship I have with my bf is not labelled submissive but much more so than what I have...
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    A woman or a weed?

    Round up please? This woman won't go away. I've posted on this before. 16 year on and off again girl friend, and now Ex of my current lover just won't disappear. What sort of sway she holds over him I don't know. Since March they have not spoken after she hacked into his phone account and...
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    the official ex and her ghost

    That seems very helpful. I have always had a compulsion to fix or help things. It's just hard for.me to sit and not try to answer it all. I will try to just be availible. I appreciate all the helpful words.
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    My Wife Is Falling In Love

    In my situation I am able to balance my time even despite very deep feelings and waves of just wanting to be with my lover instead of home cooking dinner for my husband. I love my husband so much and honestly the grass seems 'greener' on either side of the 'fence' sometimes! Balancing...
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    My Wife Is Falling In Love

    I agree. Because my husband is polysexual it's harder for him to understand the emotions between my lover and I. Especially if your wife's relationship is new it may feel like she is giving more attention to her guy. You should have an honest talk. I say have an honest talk with her about your...
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    Kink bring down positive poly

    My husband is polysexual while I am polyamourous. He has those moods as we when I return from a day with my lover. I don't share with him what we do but I enjoy more dominance from my lover thAn from my husband because of the difference in the relationship so I understand enjoying something with...
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    partners marriage trouble

    When my lover's wife admitted to an affAir is when they 'opened up'. He allowed her to work through all her emotions with this other guy with him! He listened to her cry when the guy finally hurt her and left her. He is just a super caring person... She comes from a family of women who are...
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    partners marriage trouble

    Forgive me for not reading all the replies before making my own lol My guy is married and living with his wife. They have been married for 16 years. They also have their own rooms (hers being the living room since she allowed the master bedroom to become a disgusting cluttered mess) he has a...
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    the official ex and her ghost

    Obviously I agree lol! I think she was once a great friend to him and he does miss that. We will see if time and listening can heal it. As for wives, whew! His wife is a doozy herself but he seems to handle it well and can cope and stay positive. Life is full of adjustments.
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    the official ex and her ghost

    Thank you. Just hearing support from poly folks is helpful. Blessings on your situation as well.
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    the official ex and her ghost

    Sorry for the dramatic title... but it seems dramatic at times. Both my lover and I are very emotional creatures. It's part of why we have such deep relationship even tho we live apart. Both being married and living with our spouses. I think if we were married to each other we may explode lol...
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    Hey!!! I love u

    Hey!!! I love u
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