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    News worth sharing!

    Thanks! Fact is... There are times I can be a terrible gossip, and there are times that the extent to which I share in this format, out in the open where anyone might find it, and never to be removed from the face of the internet...it was not good of me, as a partner or as a friend. I'm...
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    News worth sharing!

    I'm just popping in to share some news, since I've been off a while... Zen and I are planning our wedding, in July, at the Thunder in the Mountains kink convention. And for those of you familiar with such things... Midori has just agreed to officiate for us! *Incoherent happy noises!*
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    The story of Spork.

    So tomorrow is the 4th of July here in the States, and I have no real plans. And I'm really not sure if I want to have any. My older son is seeking to spend time with his girlfriend, and my younger son says he'd prefer to be left alone and stay home, to work on his Minecraft server. Thing...
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    The story of Spork.

    I need a nickname for my friend. She and I are getting up to some stuff. I'll call her Adventuress, as I can't think of anything much better. And she is. She's young but she's lived a lot, and done many very cool things. I think I may have written at some point about how she tried to get...
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    The story of Spork.

    Lots of talking with Zen last week, and some really good connection with others I care about over the weekend, I feel so, SO much better than I did. I gave the scar remedy stuff to our friend at the party Saturday night, and as far as I'm concerned, that is that. If she chooses to use it daily...
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    The story of Spork.

    Hmm... Further thought. I have said to regular people I talk to about relationships in another forum, one of the things that is off-putting about online dating and how many people approach dating in general, is the sense that what they're seeking is a WHAT, not a WHO. No one likes to feel...
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    The story of Spork.

    That last post was meant to be more humorous hyperbole than not, I hope that does come across. Though I admit when I saw his Facebook post with that first video and him commenting that he just loved it I was like...yeah. Of course you do. Feh. Fire is right, I am no cutesy Lolita type girl...
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    The story of Spork.

    Lol, a video a friend on Facebook shared, see this is what I feel like everyone wants, especially Zen... https://youtu.be/YqTlrZJ_qqQ And I'm just over here like, https://youtu.be/0ZGa4fu6B5Q
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    The story of Spork.

    Yeah I mean... The commonly said thing is, this is kink, the things we do are not really, truly safe. It's why "SSC" or Safe, Sane, Consensual, has been set aside for "RACK" Risk Aware Consensual Kink or even "PRICK" Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink acronyms. Seems we gotta have a...
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    The story of Spork.

    Had a nice chat on break with my co-worker. She is definitely down to top me with some guidance from Zen this weekend, and we're talking about driving up to Denver to check out a Leather shop with kink gear. She also wants to pay for a photo shoot for the two of us, later in June. So...
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    The story of Spork.

    Yeah, to be honest though, perhaps part of it comes down to me simply wanting to be seen with desire and genuine interest, not merely for the helpful provider of an experience (a warm body with skills and tools) nor a body to practice some skill on, but... I know part of it is still me...
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    The story of Spork.

    Life continues to be a mixed bag over here. Got some stresses at work but nothing I cannot handle. I was running late this morning and didn't have time to get my coffee together and I don't really like the coffee at work that much. Meh. And why was I running late though? Putting pictures on...
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    The story of Spork.

    Saw the gal that Zen had played with at the party Saturday, chatted a little, she said she's been in a rather intense competition for a head pastry chef position and she has not taken the time to respond to anybody, but she's still interested in stuff so that's good. I mean, I was asking if she...
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    Having trouble with kink acceptance

    Yes, I was thinking this. I am on the opposite side of this from you, OP, I love bruises. I like having a reminder thing, I can not only show but poke and get a tiny brain chemical rush with the reminder of the play that put it there. It's a very positive thing for me. But my bottom almost...
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    Sex - Random Questions

    To the first thing, yes, I think it's almost impossible to enjoy sex if I am not aroused. That doesn't mean my body will be showing the most predictable signs of it, because bodies are weird like that and like for instance during times of my cycle or if I'm dehydrated even, might not be as...
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