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Personally, if I had that kind of arrangement, I'd probably call them FWBs. Because I couldn't imagine hooking up regularly with...

I agree with the idea of working within the dyad instead of trying to veto. It is at this point is not really working. I think a more...

@enigmastag Do you think by any chance your wife would be also interested to post on the forum, would it be even helpful for her to read...

Thanks. I remember that assumption from when I wanted poly in my monogamous relationship. Unfortunately, it turned out to be naive as...

Thanks. At this stage, we might have skipped rope already, because my legs are swollen, so there aren't many body parts left to tie...

Sounds kinda viable. Feelings may easily develop in a FWB situation, but with personal integrity and the understanding that "falling in...

I had one last session before my due date with MaskedRigger scheduled today, unfortunately, he had to cancel :( I'm luckily not in love...

I'm thinking for some people it might be better to cut off communication cold turkey, but for some people, even if they don't hookup or...

Still haven't started a new thread.. oh well! I'm going through my stuff trying to reduce some stored papers and make space for baby...

I agree with others - while she may have truly poly feelings of love for both you and her husband, unfortunately, there's not much you...

Thanks for doing that! I myself didn't read the books regularly recommended here and I don't listen to podcasts either, so I also just...

I didn't look through podcast stuff, just hit up Google Scholar for a couple of hours. And our own search function. I didn't do...

@Evie I have to yet go through the links, but to be clear: So your research shows "polysexual" is this forums specialty? It isn't widely...

I don't judge you. NRE is so strong. Twelve years ago I broke my monogamous relationship because I could not let go of it (I fell in...

I'm so sorry this happened to you, man. I have to admit I'm in a similar situation except I'm the other guy. My girlfriend was forced to...