Recent content by Triadlove177

That is some really interesting information. I've never heard of DARVO before. It isn't uncommon that when Sue feels slighted, she believes it to be intentional and malicious. There's rarely much middle ground to be had. After a few therapy sessions and several letters from me, recommended by...

Hey Everyone, I made a post here fairly recently with regards to a pretty tough situation that one of our partners, Sue, in a closed triad put us in. Turns out there seems to be a lot of dishonesty and repressed anger from Sue that is coming to light and the whole situation seems unhealthy...

I did learn some new details finally, before our therapy later this week. Turns out I was being lied to, which was pretty hurtful, and the result of me being lied to was causing them some pain/discomfort and anger. The demand that Vic made about not staying up late with Sue was likely because...

I wouldn't say you're wrong on any point, but we did get therapy lined up for next week and scheduled 3 more sessions after that in advance. Sue is currently agreeing to go. So it may not work out, but hopefully therapy will at least get everyone to be honest with one another. I appreciate the...

Thank you for that. Didn't mean to cross post. I am not on forums very often.

Thank you for all the feedback. I'll make sure to use nicknames next time. We have relationship therapy set up in a little over a week with a therapist who claims to be experienced and supportive of LGBTQ and Poly relationships, so maybe that will work things out. I did tell Sue that part of...

I'm currently in a three-person relationship. I (34m) and my partner M (33f) have been married 8 years, together 15 years. We started dating a third, partner S (31f), about 2 years ago. M and I have had a lot of extramarital sexual experiences during our 15 years together. This is our first...

No answers from me, but want to follow this thread.

Hello everyone, I may be coming into this space kind of late in a long-term 3-person relationship, but we had no real idea what we have been doing and it turns out there are issues, at least for one of us, that have gone unresolved. Things are ROCKY, to say the least. This is going to be a VERY...