Welcome. Baggage- we all have some. Discuss what you are comfortable with. Don’t be pushed beyond that. This is a great group that does care. Jump in and enjoy.
For me, I am out of the loop on social media. When I read discord, I had to look it up. Never heard of it. I just keep in my shell and get on here. No Facebook, no discord, etc. just a nice quiet Poly.com. 😄
I am sorry you are having difficulty. My wife has been searching for a year and a half. She found a keeper, then he got transferred 800 miles. She gets discouraged..sometimes she thinks about just giving it up. I am glad she keeps trying. There are positive folks out there.
Welcome. Sorry to hear what you have experienced. We all have ideas, but, we are not experts. Ask away and folks will jump in. You will find some good counsel here. Regards.
Howdy from Corsicana area. Spouse and I were raised in the same venue as yourself. The book “Divine Sex” by philo Thelos is a good read for folks like us. Feel free to holler.