Recent content by wndrng_nt_lst

Knowing and expressing the fact that your needs are not being met was good. Poly relationships are built on communication, without it, how do you expect to build that relationship? Please, if they are trying to veto you at every turn and refusing to meet your needs get out. That is not...

May I suggest this book and workbook that I was encouraged to read?

Hi Phoenix! It is totally up to you, as long as you are honest and polite, any introduction is welcome. I usually would say something like: hi, I came across your profile on my feed, and really enjoyed reading your profile.... As far as your interests, try searching the 'groups', 'events' tabs...

That is so good to hear

Thank you very much.

If the picture didn't come through, it is the book titled Polysecure and the workbook. I got it on Amazon

I am so happy to hear you all had a good dinner, and your husband is relaxing into the idea of polyam. I just purchased this set .. I believe it would help a lot... especially new to poly

Absolutely

I appreciate your reply. I agree, they sound about how I would want to approach it as well.

Thank you.

All good questions. Currently my Sir is My ideal Dom. I would want the new partner to be vanilla, however he can be poly with one other, if that's what he needs. Aside from an occasional slap on the ass, I would like to keep my bedroom activities non-kink with him. If he grew to be a good fit...

Thank you very much. That was a good deal of information and application. I appreciate you openness and sharing your real life example. I like to date 'old school' and apps really haven't worked anyway, so the approach was off-putting.

First, thank you for your response, it was very good information. I am not so concerned about he actual approach, as the "...and I have a Dom" thing. Here I have given 2 big pieces of information for them to digest...poly (that one is easy) and my dynamic...that one is more difficult, because...

So, here my story... I am in a VEE relationship with J. J is married to C and she and I are cordial to one another, but not really close friends. J and I are in a D/s relationship. This really is an amazing relationship! We meet up for play, talk every day, and are emotionally...

I may have a different take on this. I am in a VEE relationship, and my partner is the one who is married. My metamour and I like each other, and are very open when we talk about needs and expectations. I have found that the married partner sometimes feels as though the home you two have...