Trying to rebuild trust of him. He says he loves me for better or worse but is still unsure. I want to know is that unsure between mono or poly with me there either way or is he thinking about staying in a mon poly relationship with his wife.
Not sure what the point of rambling on here is. Not sure if I have a question for the community.
It worked. I fell for him. A year later I broke my long term rule and moved back to the states for him. He said he wasn’t sure whether he wanted poly or to be monogamous with me but he was in love with me and he wanted to see if marriage would work in the future. His wife thought he was sure he wanted poly and now HaTES me. He acts like he is cheating on two people rather than being poly. I am heart broken.
Around the same time an old friend had his marriage nearly collapse. Saved only by my friend trying having a girl friend. I recommended against me because I tend to push people who don’t play fair out of relationships. But also probably because I was beginning to feel like less complications would be better. We kept talking he tried hard to get me to fall for him. Including a fairytale trip to my newest wanderlust ob
Trying to figure out whether this relationship is worth it’s difficulties. I was happily living an adventurous life. Collecting way too many complications but not letting them consume my life. I got to a point where I realized that the complications were armor I didn’t need. I had gotten to a place where I enjoyed my own company and thought maybe letting someone in to the daily bit who wanted to be there might be nce
Poly curious in an imbalanced ploy relationship with an old friend whose wife cheated then called Poly.
My partner has long stated he isn’t sure what he wants. Currently uneasy poly is our status quo and my meta is off the deep end paranoid and revisionist.
Part of me wonders does ethical polyamory exist. Part of me says this is just a bad example. Monogamous or poly my partner and I each have baggage to workout