Greetings there

Hey everyone,
Future husband here so glad to be part of this community. I’ve been really curious about polyamory for a while, and I’m excited to finally step into this space, explore more of what it means, and connect with like-minded people.

For me, being polyamorous feels like something truly special. It’s hard to even describe it with words — it’s more like something you have to feel and experience to really understand. The idea of building connections that are open, honest, and not limited by traditional boundaries is something I find deeply meaningful.
My fiancée has been a big influence on this journey. She believes that when a couple creates something strong together, a deep bond, trust, and shared history, it’s only natural for that connection to expand rather than be restricted. That idea really stayed with me. We each have our own lives and experiences, but there’s still that strong foundation between us.

I’m here with an open mind and a good heart. I’d love to learn from others, hear different perspectives, make new friends, and maybe even meet potential partners along the way. I value honesty, communication, and emotional connection above all.

Looking forward to getting to know you all and sharing this journey together.

Greetings xtremelove,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You are so lucky to have such a supportive fiancée, she gets polyamory and is willing to explore that path with you. I hope you make new friends here, and if some of those come out to be more than just friendships, well that's all the better. Welcome!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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kdt26417 said:

Greetings xtremelove,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You are so lucky to have such a supportive fiancée, she gets polyamory and is willing to explore that path with you. I hope you make new friends here, and if some of those come out to be more than just friendships, well that's all the better. Welcome!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!

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Hello there,

Thank you for your reply and for your advice. Yes, she is just the best and I am.so glad she is enjoying her life with me and also her separate life with her partners. Also, is anyone else wishes to say hello either here or in private I am always up to reply and chat

She sounds like a sweet person. I hope the two of you enjoy a healthy poly life together, if you have any questions let us know.

kdt26417 said:

She sounds like a sweet person. I hope the two of you enjoy a healthy poly life together, if you have any questions let us know.

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Sure. I do have a question. We do have a friend. She is nice and all, we hang out. However, she is kinda religiouse and she does not understand how can we date other individuals and she kinda tells us to stop before it is too late. Of course we explained and showed her that we are not a damaged couple, and we are both poly out of love for each other and we do enjoy seeing each other with other partners. But, is there like a secret or something similar that will make her fully understand that poly is indeed not for everyone and only those who can handle it can have a poly rrlationship

It's tough when someone is religious and conservative, I don't know how you convince them that poly is for some but not for others. They'll just have to see over time that poly does not damage your relationship with your fiancée.