Polyamory

We have been monogamous. Almost a year ago we experienced a great loss that has affected us both. She sat me down and said she misses us and she really wants to open this marriage up; to get herself back to her. I am here to ask for guidance in how to navigate this request. Am I being selfish that I want her to give us some time to grieve and find US again before we try and open this marriage up?

Hi, welcome, you are not being selfish, she owes it to you to give her and you some time to grieve and find each other again, before you try and open the marriage.

I appreciate your input. It’s hard to wrap my head around opening things up so it’s even more overwhelming right now.