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    Hi all! New here and seeking wisdom and new perspective. My wife and I have been together for 5 years (2 years married). When we met I knew she was poly but I didn't really know how big this was till recently. She said to me "I was going to have 'the talk' with you, but I don't want to"... I had no idea what she meant, but she told me she was going to tell me that she wanted to be in an open relationship.
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    kdt26417
    kdt26417
    Yeah, it is not a good idea to carry too many burdens at once. Opening things up right now would be one burden too many.
    Evie
    Evie
    if you want more advice, please post your situation in Poly Relationships Corner. But to me, it sounds like she has gotten far enough through the grieving process that she's ready to focus on herself and her well-being again; I can imagine that your wife wants to embrace life again, after processing that loss.
    Evie
    Evie
    In contrast, it sounds like you aren't nearly as far through the grieving process - have you been getting any help (therapy) for that? Grief is probably the most painful thing I've ever felt, and I cannot imagine the enduring pain of getting stuck in it. I hope you're still moving through, that the waves of it are crashing a bit more further apart, and not quite as ferociously.
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