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How long did it take you to get to compersion for your partners on your poly journies? Was it always there? Is it different each time? Any insights on say, experience, time, and compersion in general?? As I'm moving through what has become on ONGOING relationship for my husband (his side...

How do you do it? No, but like, really? I confess I've never felt this kind of envy or FOMO or literally the entire list of emotions that come with it from every single article Kevin has shared (I read them all) to this degree ever in my life. I'm not normally an insecure person. But fuck me...

This isn't a "seeking advice" post so much as a wallowing in self-pity post. My husband recently (a month ago?) started dating a new partner, and this is the first woman in a LONG time he has fully caught feels for. I know the NRE is super strong. I truly don't feel like our...

I think there is some missing framework here and maybe I'm an opposition voice, but I'll say it and see where it lands. Opening a marriage in any capacity is, by nature, a very selfish act. It is saying, "I want to do this thing that will bring me additional pleasure and joy, and I want it to...

Have been navigating my poly tendencies in my ENM marriage for the last 3 years. (Married almost 19, but ENM for the last 3.) Have very good open and honest communication. Not necessarily struggling nor needing help, but have felt very much closeted in my real life and don't really have anyone...