Search results

So, I just got back home from what I've begun to call one of those WWE situations. I hate those. I couldn't get back home sooner. I feel like I've just been emotionally butt-raped, as horrifying as it sounds. So after coming home, taking a shower, angrily cleaning the house and feeding the dog...

That is actually very good to hear....my well wishes to you both! And happy hunting...! ;)

Hi Kitteh (I love your name), Welcome to the board, and to poly living, I'd say :) Sorry that your best friend is not that supportive, I know how that can be...but I'd say that's why we're here!

Hi, welcome! just doesn't sound healthy for you, my dear. Take care of you! Xo

...I was thinking the same thing :)

poly relationships can go through "trial separation periods" better than most...or are even an option for them. Open communication is key. When only two in a triad have a relationship talk is where things go wrong...to me. I think when the "where are we/what are we doing" questions come up, I...

Hi! Welcome!

*nods*

quagmire Hi Ritzy, Welcome! It sounds like you and your bf are jumping back on the horse after having an experience...that's great! Since fear isn't stopping you (that's awesome) you can tackle jealousy as well. Jealousy was something i had a big problem with in the first year or so of...

I agree You can get super close to someone through social media, emails, etc. But when you get around them, see how they are, how they live, how they interact with you/other people, etc...your mind could change faster than the flap of a butterfly's wings. I agree that there's no need to go...

Hello! I like your username and your avatar :)

Polycule--I like that word! hehe :D

People see me with my couple all the time...especially their neighbors and house visitors. no one has ever asked us anything. While it's in my opinion no one's business (mainly people I don't know) if anyone were to come up and ask me, I'd tell them... However, all of our closest mutual friends...

I'm good with the ERE myself. I feel like there is NRE in ERE (if that makes sense), because the more you know where you stand with your/a partner, the more you begin to open up, grow together, and find even more things you enjoy about them. Idk, ERE to me is like finally scaling that...

When I am away from Boo-Cake, I do the good morning/good night texts along with random pictures and memes of some of our favorite things... Boo-Muffin and I send each other pictures of the food we're making for the day (or food in general) and sing each other random songs by texting each other...

hi there... I can't exactly break it down for you in the fanciest, science-like terms. But then again, that's one of the wonders of poly: you have to do what works for you...and if it's something you decide to continue pursuing, that's something you'll learn to know and love. However, I think...

I feel the rule of thumb with unicorns is this: you won't find it if you keep looking for it. I second the plumber thing....! Except Boo-cake is a carpenter, ha ha.

Boo-Muffin and I went grocery shopping together a few days ago, with the intent of us making dinner plans for our houses (I live a few miles away). Boo-Cake came home from work a few hours later. He's working 2 1/2 hours away, and only comes home maybe 2 days out of the week. Promptly after...

1440 How do you define a half-decent woman? Are you talking about characteristics, personality, upbringing, poly morals, or are you referring to her genes?

Hi everyone, I'm a bit shy when it comes to introductions, so here goes: I'm a 30 year old female :) I have been in a happy Vee for 5 years, and Boo-cake is the hinge. Boo-muffin is my best friend. I enjoy tree climbing and I am a bit of a polyglot, or at least I am always trying to learn...